Broken leg!

Y’all, Andy’s leg is broken!

It happened on Sunday when he and Josh went down a slide together at a playground. Andy’s shoe caught on the plastic slide and bent backwards as they went down, and it actually broke his leg! Apparently this is a common playground injury, with 14% of toddler leg fractures happening in just this way. Who knew?! If you have a toddler or a small child, you should read more about this here.

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Don’t go down together! This picture is old but it met the basic requirements of containing Andy and a slide

He cried for a while after it happened (not like him at all) and was just not his cheery self the rest of that night.  We knew something was wrong because Andy wouldn’t walk or put any weight on his leg. He kept saying “knee hurt,” but he could bend everything and after a couple of days it didn’t hurt to the touch. It was hard for us to figure out if he was really hurt or not, but the fact that he wouldn’t even take a step on that leg for days was the big red flag.

Andy was still hurting on Monday and wouldn’t put any weight on his leg, so we took him to the doctor. She said that it was probably sprained, and we should give him ibuprofen and put ice on it, and if it wasn’t better in a few days then go back for x-rays. On Wednesday it still wasn’t better, so we made another appointment and went to see another doctor this morning. The doctor examined him and couldn’t find anything that seemed wrong. He said we could do x-rays or we could wait a few more days and see if it got better, but we’d already done that. He was being cautious because we’re self-paying and didn’t want to saddle us with a huge x-ray bill unnecessarily. After we explained about our Christian health-sharing ministry and that the money really wasn’t a factor because we’d be covered, he said it would be safest to do the x-rays. (We love Samaritan Ministries – our “insurance.” Check it out here. If you sign up using our name then we get a credit! 🙂 )

We went straight from that doctor’s office to the children’s hospital for the x-rays. The children’s hospital was really cool, and they had the best waiting room! There was a TV playing the movie Tangled in the corner (we’d just missed our favorite song!) and had all these toys and things, including a big bubble machine thing, for Andy to play with. He probably would’ve stayed in there all day. Even the radiology check-in desk office was lively!

so cool!        The best waiting room!

We’d been telling Andy for a couple of days that if his leg didn’t feel better then we’d have to go back to the doctor and probably get pictures taken of his bones. So we’d been prepping him for this and when we went into the x-ray room we said “look at this cool camera!” and things like that so he wasn’t freaked out. He was a champ and did great. He stayed really still on the table that moved (also cool) and the workers were really nice to him. They said we would know the results sometime today.

mmm, radiation       (terrible pic of me) (yes, I cut my hair – that blog post is in the works)

Then Josh had to go back to school. (HUGE shout out to his co-worker Jose for watching Josh’s first class so he could stay with us for the x-rays. Thank you, Jose! We owe you much more than sweet tea.) Andy and I went to Buc-ees – I needed gas and it’s the cheapest around, so that was my excuse. Also, we could get lunch there. So we did. Then we came home to eat, and while we were eating I got a call from the doctor with the x-ray results. He said there was a small fracture in Andy’s tibia and it would need a splint or a cast. He’d been able to squeeze us in with a pediatric orthopedic doctor at 3 this afternoon, and told us where to go. After continuing the string of mass text updates that had been going on throughout the day and googling pictures of toddlers in leg casts, we laid down and took a nap.

We woke up and it was time to go to the next appointment. We had to go to the so-and-so Roney Bone and Joint Institute, but I call it Roneybone, cause it sounds funny. Josh met us there after his last class. We had to wait for a while and it was challenging to keep Andy occupied/entertained, but finally the doctor came.

The Casting Room   Waiting for the cast We're not happy at all ;)

He showed us the x-rays and where the fracture was, and talked to me a little about how to care for Andy’s cast.

a close-up  baby legs!  The fracture

Honestly he didn’t have my full attention, because the person who actually puts on the cast was starting to do that and I didn’t want to miss it, but I tried to be respectful and at least get the important parts. Andy didn’t really seem to care about the color of his cast so Josh and I picked it out and we went with dark blue, after having been told that the light blue gets really dirty really quickly. So there you go. Andy sat in Josh’s lap while the man put layer upon layer of stuff on his leg. He was pretty enthralled by the whole thing so it wasn’t even an issue having him sit still.

just the beginning...  IMG_1938getting the cast put on  getting the cast Blue!  blue goo

Then it was done, and we could go. Andy has to wear his cast until we go back to the orthopedic doctor in four weeks, at which time they’ll do more x-rays and assess what to do from there.

They'd just started cutting off someone else's cast when this picture was taken

They’d just started cutting off someone else’s cast when this picture was taken. It was a very loud noise!

Afterward we went to Ye Olde English Bakery and let Andy pick out what he wanted. He had been a trooper all day long, not to mention living with a broken leg for five days. A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down, and by ‘spoonful of sugar’ I mean cupcake and by ‘medicine go down’ I mean leg get better.

Sweet rewards

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Christmas is Over… Thank goodness!

It has been a long time since we’ve updated our blog, but for good reason: Christmas! Everyone is busier in December, it seems. Usually for us it is a boatload of holiday concerts for no less than 5 performing ensembles. I never enjoyed that much (if I was directing!). But this year it was different.

We didn’t have very many concerts to play, and didn’t have ANY to direct. We were busy because, in our frugality (single-income-ness) and quest to separate ourselves from the mass consumption and greed that is, unfortunately, much of what Christmas has become in our society, we decided to make all of our Christmas gifts. Some people do this every year, but this was our first year and boy, did we learn a lot! (Mostly, to not do it like this again!) I blame myself, because I searched pinterest for cool gifts to make everyone and really got in over my head, thinking, “we can make this, and this, and this, oh and that’s so cool!, oh and this, and she’ll love this, and…” etc. End result: a secret pinterest board chock full of ideas of things to make for our dear family and friends. And I wanted to make it all.

Rosemary-infused olive oil – Thanks, Katie, for the fresh rosemary! I owe you one!

 

Coasters, Bookend toppers, and the beginning of a mason jar holder

Scrabble tile coasters – after figuring out what they should say but before glueing

 

I was really excited about this to begin, because I think homemade gifts are the best. They really tell the recipient that you cared and put a lot of thought into what you were making. I found myself thinking about the intended recipient a lot and hoping they would like whatever it was. I was also looking forward to saving money, not hurredly scrolling through Amazon wish lists, and not shopping in crowded stores with everyone and their dog. Plus, I’m a pretty creative person and I love to make things, so at the beginning I was really stoked.

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Hard at work. FYI: the beer bottles are empty and ready to bottle ginger beer. Well, two of them are. 😛

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The first night. We didn’t see the surface of our kitchen table for about a month and a half.

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The first night of baking/cooking/DIY’ing.

 

Then I was overwhelmed, and spent the rest of December and the first part of January like that. I was overwhelmed because we were making SO. MANY. THINGS. And with a toddler, the only work we were really able to do was after he went to bed and before we pooped out. So on a good night we’d get maybe 2 or 3 hours to work, and that was it.

There are about 15 family members who we are responsible for giving gifts to at Christmas, not including ourselves and Andy, plus church nursery workers and other friends, and each person got at least 2 things. Considering that not much was duplicated, and some people got more than one gift, that is a LOT of stuff to make. Another source of pressure was the self-imposed need to make our gifts “good enough” to not be piddly compared with what the recipient would probably give us. I didn’t want anyone to feel like they got the short end of the stick, so to say! …And to that end I’m not sure I was entirely successful.

I’m spent!

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The final layout for the bottle cap tray. Before glue and resin

The finished product!

The finished scrabble tile coasters

 

We did make some really cool things. Josh helped a lot, too, and so did my mom with obtaining supplies and stuff, and for that I was SO grateful. I got to use resin for the first time, which was tricky but turned out so cool, and some gifts involved power tools! (Remember those facebook requests to borrow bandsaws and blowtorches?!)

The pictures you see are some photographic evidence of our Christmas gift journey, with a few pictures of finished products. Some of the gifts I wrapped really quick before I was able to take pictures of them, so if you are the recipient of one that you’d like to share, please do so in the comments.

All in all, we made: 5 sets of coasters (all different), a mason jar holder, two sets of bookends, two terrariums, a bottle cap tray (we did NOT drink all that beer by ourselves, or in one sitting, fyi – also a lot of them are sodas 🙂 ), multiple hair bows, clips, and ties; 5 or so belt hangers, one dino-butt phone stand, a mod podge tray, a set of blocks, four wall canvases, framed dried flowers, two coffee syrups, multiple bath/body items including dry shampoo, sore muscle rub, shaving cream, bath salts, and sugar scrubs, and other kitchen/food items including 2 sets of 4 spice rubs, vinaigrette dressing, rosemary-infused olive oil, cinnamon honey butter, vanilla and cinnamon extracts, multiple batches of puppy chow, and ginger beer (with limited success).

We put a lot of thought, time, and effort into making everyone’s gifts. It truly was a labor of love! But after all this, guess who was left out? Josh and Andy. I didn’t have a single thing for them – not that they cared, but still! 😦 Some parts of our family don’t do gift exchanges anymore, so they didn’t get anything from us either, but that doesn’t mean I love them less. Promise. (After this ordeal, I think I love you more! Ha!)

Next year, everyone’s getting the same thing. And I do mean EVERYONE. I’ve already figured out what it will be – still homemade-ish – and I’m excited about it!

Finally, here are some cute pictures of Andy at a Christmas Eve service and on Christmas day. More of this to follow. 🙂

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We Say Goodbye to One of Our Readers and So Does Andy

Andy and his Grandpas

Andy and his Grandpas

Let me start off by saying that this post is not going to be completely focused on Andy. Gasp! What is this heresy you say? We had some big things happen the past few weeks. Andy was not always the focus, but we were glad that he was there.

    This past Friday, Nov. 21, my Grandpa (Robert Earl Essary), my dad’s dad , passed away after fighting numerous health problems. After we found out, we made out way up to Quitman, TX. That’s East Texas for those geographically challenged. And yes, you’re right, that IS the home of Sissy Spacek. I didn’t know how I would feel once I got there. We saw Grandma and Grandpa pretty frequently when they lived in Duncanville. They eventually moved out to Quitman, and our visits dwindled down to yearly ones and sometimes less. 

    I do remember more than I thought. Things started coming back. Memories I hadn’t thought of in awhile. You know how you have time to think about these things when you gather with the family, mingle during visitation, listening to eulogies, being with people, and of course eating? Well I was not the exception. 

   My Grandparents had been married for 60+ years! My Grandpa was a church man. He played the steel guitar, the one on the stand, in the band at the Assembly of God. The story goes “Josh just loved that music when he was little. He would just stand in the pew and dance and dance and dance.” I honestly don’t remember that, but I suppose that isn’t a basis for a rebuttal. He took me and my brother camping in RV, and we played in that thing even we weren’t camping. He also loved fishing, and he had his own boat. I think it was a Tracker! I remember plenty of times sitting in that boat, while in the driveway, acting like we were fishing. Of course we went fishing on the water as well. Every now and then we would even catch something and Grandpa would always have to take the hook out.

   We will miss Grandpa. Yet, there are always silver linings to events like these. It brings family together. I was able to see one of my uncles that I haven’t see in maybe 10 years. Other cousins, “uncles”, and family friends that were only names in my head (i.e. Heath, Uncle Leo, Mitch, Chad). We experienced great hospitality and got to know people a little better.

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Andy with Janice

   Let’s talk a little about Andy. First, Grandpa loved him so much. I think those were the last things I ever remember Grandpa saying to me and Andy. He was leaving my Dad’s house and he said to me “Grandpa loves you” and then turned to Andy and said “Great Grandad loves you too.” Grandpa was an avid reader of the BabyEssary blog. He always talked about the latest pictures and stories from the blog. Believe it or not, he had the page bookmarked and also kept up on Facebook 🙂 There was a slideshow that the funeral home had going during visitation, and there were about 3 pictures of Grandpa and Andy when Andy was about 3 months (?). Those were the ones that did me in. It was more happiness that anything knowing that he got to see Andy and hold him.

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4 Generations of Essarys

    Andy was definitely a needed presence in a time of great somber. He was always happy, running around, wanting to play, and always for giving “baby hugs.” Come by sometime, he doesn’t charge. Sometimes I think kids are more perceptive that we give them credit for. Andy proved this on numerous occasions during our days in Quitman. After the service all attendees walked to the front for one final viewing. I stood in the aisle with Andy to wait. The funeral directors closed the casket, and began to roll it out of the church. As Grandpa rolled by, Andy stuck his hand out, waved, and declared a farewell of “bye-bye.” I don’t know if that caused tears of happiness or sadness. I sure did see a lot of teared eyed, smiling faces.

Great Grandpa

Great Grandpa

   The usual proceedings took place. We ate, visited, reminisced,etc… Then we decided to go view the grave. We drove out to the cemetery to the fresh mound of dirt decorated with your usual greens, flowers, and marker. No one really knows what to do, and there isn’t anything you SHOULD do in those situations. We mingled around, looked at the flowers, talked about the marker, and talked to each other. Andy was of course running around the cemetery like he owned the place. He evidently needed one more farewell. He walked over the pile of dirt with Great Grandma and Grandpa, touched it, and once more said “bye-bye.” 

Bye-Bye Grandpa.

Robert Earl Essary: October 10, 1930-November 21, 2014

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I’m so excited!

People, I just have to share this with you because I am so excited about it. Right now there is an online convention of sorts called the Wellness Family Summit, which was created by a blogger I read called WellnessMama. There are four video “conferences” every day featuring different people and different topics about wellness and family, and I’ve watched five or six of them so far and I’ve learned so much and am so PUMPED to learn more and really make some (more) changes to benefit my family’s health. (Sorry for the run-on, I’m just so excited in that can’t-stop-for-a-breath kind of way!)

My favorites so far have been Vani Hari from foodbabe.com and Heather Dessinger of mommypotamus.com. Their talks were both filled with so much good information!

I’m sure you’ll hear more from me about this later but I will say – it’s the food. What we consume is making us sick and fat and tired and poor (doctor’s bills and prescriptions, anyone?). Some of these speakers have overcome chronic thyroid and autoimmune disorders by changing what they eat and what chemicals are in their home. It’s amazing.

Anyway, this is going on for a whole week and it’s FREE! So. Go here now and sign up to watch!

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Awesome videos!

We have some awesome new videos of Andy.

The first two are the best. In the first one, Andy is ‘reading.’

In the second video my mom is using a goldfish pretzel and pretending that it’s swimming and jumping, and Andy thinks this is just the funniest thing ever.

The other two aren’t really anything spectacular, but I thought they were cute. One of them is Andy carrying his potty through the house, which it was just sort of funny to watch him carry it around. You can also catch a glimpse of cute baby butt in this one.

The second video is Josh trying to get Andy to say “apple” when he points to the icon on his computer. It leads to some other shenanigans involving a plastic trombone mouthpiece. 🙂

Hope you enjoy them!

 

18 months old!

It’s been a really long time since we blogged, and all I can say is that those diaper posts really took it out of me! Anyway, Andy turns 18 months old tomorrow (today? It is after midnight!) so here are some celebratory pictures from earlier this summer. Also, for those who are wondering – and I’m sure we’ll say more about this later – so far being a stay at home mom has been AWESOME. 🙂

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Why I love cloth diapers (part 3): Our Favorite Things

If you’ve gotten through parts 1 and 2, congratulations! I’m glad you’re here, you’re the Victor of the Hunger Games and you’ve just won a trip to Disney World! Welcome to part 3, Our Favorite Things!

This post is dedicated to Baby V. and his/her very smart and awesome parents!

Now that you know why cloth diapers are great (or, maybe, need more convincing to use cloth diapers?), you need to know what little things will make your life immensely easier. Here are some of our favorite things:

Cloth Diapering 101 youtube video series

*all pictures are from Google Images, except where noted.

This fantastic woman’s name is Jaimee. She has a 7 part series on YouTube that’s about all things cloth diapers. It is a really good jumping off point for those who are new or may be overwhelmed. (You may still be overwhelmed – I know we were! But it still helped explain a lot of things. We are A+ students and we took notes.)

 

Pre-folds

  

Your most basic diaper. They are soft cotton and sewn in three sections, with the middle section thicker than the outer sections. Some kinds are color coded for size (see picture above) and others are not (see other picture above). We have gotten by so far with three sizes, and we don’t expect to need any more because the biggest ones we have now are REALLY big. We use our big ones for nighttime and fold them over for size (and it’s also more absorbent for that longer stretch of time!). If you use a pre-fold, you will also need a cover to keep things waterproof. (See below)

Quick aside: If you decide to get pre-folds, don’t get the ones they sell at big box stores as they are not at all near the same quality of ones you would get from an actual diaper/babyish store. The ones we got from Wal-targ-stco’s were so not the same that I hesitate to even put them in the same category. I recommend a local-to-you cloth diapering joint, or something like babyearth.com or amazon.

 

Covers

                  

Covers are what you put over the pre-fold to keep things waterproof. They have replaced the ‘plastic pants’ of old, thank the Lord! They come in different colors/designs, and you can get snap or velcro, or made out of other material such as wool. The snaps are how they adjust in size as your baby grows. They also don’t have to be changed as often as the prefold itself. You can usually go 3-4 diaper changes with one cover if there’s no poop on it and if it’s not smelly. What makes it waterproof is polyurethane lining, which is heat sensitive so you’re not really supposed to put them in the dryer (another reason we use the laundry line). You can put them in the dryer on low, but then your diapers will take FOREVER to get dry. Covers by a brand called Flip are our current favorites.

 

All-in-ones

An All-in-One is just like a disposable diaper, except you don’t throw it away. It is basically a pre-fold and a cover in one. They are more expensive than pre-folds, but for some people this is the only kind of cloth diaper they use. They are available all over the internet in any sort of design/fabric. All those snaps are how they adjust in size as your baby grows. We only have about 5 of these and we refer to them as “easy diapers” because they’re a one-step process. We save them for church nursery, babysitters, some grandparents, or anyone that may only be accustomed to disposable diapers, since they are so similar in design.

 

Inserts

Inserts are, at their most basic, pieces of cloth that you put in the diaper to make it more absorbent. They are made of cotton, microfiber, hemp – all sorts. I don’t know what they all do, except I know that hemp has wicking properties. People get all creative and mix-n-match to suit their needs. We use ones from Nicki’s Diapers and Hemp Babies.

 

Dry wipes

   

These are basically rags or washcloths or any sort of fabric that you don’t mind using to wipe a baby’s bottom with. I made my own (not as pretty as the ones in the picture but same idea) out of a couple of the hundred receiving blankets we got when Andy was a baby. The reasons to use these instead of the store-bought wet wipes are some of the same as why you don’t want to use disposable diapers – more trash in landfill and harmful chemicals/dyes. There is a very famous national brand of wipes that REALLY irritate Andy’s skin. The only times we use store bought wet wipes are for poopoo, and then after we use the wet ones we use a dry wipe to dry him off, which lessens irritation and the chance of diaper rash.

If you’re so inclined, there are lots of people who make their own wet wipes by using these dry wipes and then a solution they make themselves out of gentler, more natural ingredients. Pinterest or a google search should set you up nicely.

 

Boingo/Snappi

If you’re new to cloth diapers, you’ve probably heard horror stories about babies getting stuck with safety pins. Well, those days are gone! These are Boingo’s and Snappi’s, respectively. We prefer boingos but use both for holding pre-fold diapers closed. They have ace bandage-like teeth (made of plastic) to hold the diaper together. Of course they both come in many different colors. I’d recommend getting at least 2 packages of boingos to start with, just for when you lose one. Come on, you know it’s gonna happen.

 

Wet bags – large and small

Our favorite wet bags are made by Planet Wise and you can find them on Amazon. We have two big ones (like the green one on the left) that go in our trash can-turned-diaper pail. When it’s time to wash diapers we throw the bag in the wash with them and have the second one clean and ready to go. We also have a few smaller wet bags that go with us in the diaper bag.

 

Diaper sprayer

This installs easily next to your toilet and is a lifesaver. No more dunking or scraping with some sort of unfortunately designated tool – do yourself a favor and just get one. You can get them from home improvement stores or amazon (and the ones that aren’t specifically labeled for diapers are the same thing but MUCH less expensive!). We also keep a small wet bag in the bathroom and when we’re done spraying we just stick the diaper in the wet bag, so we’re not carrying a dripping-poo-water diaper through the house. 🙂

 

Country Save

This is our favorite laundry detergent! I’m not really sure why but cloth diapers need basic, free-and-clear type detergent. Watch part 6 of the YouTube series for more details. Anyway, Country Save is very gentle and is the only recommended-for-diapers brand we could find in our area. (It’s at Natural Grocers in case anyone local is interested.)

 

Laundry line

diaper line (This picture is not from google! It’s from my backyard.)

Of course this is not required, but we like it because it saves energy and money by not using the dryer and because the sun bleaches out poop stains. We got ours at Home Depot, and it is removable in case you don’t want it there permanently. I’m also hoping that someday it will help us make an awesome tent.

 

Just Between Friends sale/Garage sales

 

Just Between Friends (jbfsale.com) is a consignment sale that happens all over the country, usually twice a year. (I just googled for these images and was completely blown away by what I saw from the search – I’ve never seen a JBF sale like that! I guess those are all from big cities but HOLY COW! And, there’s a reason why buying secondhand is good – it saves all that stuff from a landfill!) Anyway – we were lucky enough to find a large chunk of our cloth diapering supplies at one of these sales. We paid $80 for a big bag full of pre-folds (probably at least 18 of them), 5 covers, 3 snappis, a wet bag, and an almost full bag of Bum Genius diaper detergent. We almost passed on it until Josh quickly searched his phone to see what all this would ordinarily cost us. Boy, was it a big difference – the covers alone would have run us $75! We also got a few of our all-in-ones and inserts from a garage sale that my mother-in-law found (and which we still owe you for… sorry, Marcy!).

 

Some people’s big hang-up about cloth diapers are the large up-front cost, and it can be a lot depending on what you get, but you can cut that considerably by buying things secondhand. We have most of what we have just because that’s what we found at a sale, not because we researched and polled people about different brands or anything.

Don’t forget that when you’re all done with diapers, you can resell them and recoup some of your cost!

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This is the last of the Why I Love Cloth Diapers series! Don’t forget to check out part 1 (why I love cloth diapers) and part 2 (why I dislike disposables) if you haven’t already. I hope they were helpful, inspirational, educational, or some other positive adjective. Please feel free to comment below if you have some cloth diapering gadget that you love!

Why I Love Cloth Diapers (part 2)

The flip side to why I love cloth diapers is why I do not and will not use disposables.

…toxic garbage!

*Disclaimer: This is not a knock to my family and friends who use disposables. I love you all and respect whatever decision you make for your little ones.*

Here is a link to a very well-written, eye-opening blog post called Why Disposable Diapers are Dirty and Dangerous.  This person has written what I wanted to express, but better than I would ever be able to do it. She even has research paper-style references from scientific journals/articles and the like and she DOES NOT mince words. Please read it, especially if you are in the disposable diaper camp. You may not change your mind and that is fine, but you can at least be aware of what you’re putting on your baby. Go now, I’ll wait right here.

Original article at: http://www.smallfootprintfamily.com/dangers-of-disposable-diapers#ixzz36TGmuCXC

Did you do it? Okay.

If you didn’t, here are some of the highlights you missed (read the article for more details and sources):

  • Every year, the amount of disposable diapers used could fill Yankee Stadium 15 times
  • Not even “eco-friendly” disposables biodegrade in landfills
  • Our landfills contain 84 million pounds of human fecal matter, which is not biodegrading but instead being preserved indefinitely and could potentially contaminate our water supply and spread disease.
  • It takes one cup of crude oil to make the plastic for one disposable diaper… this is too lengthy to summarize further, but I like this quote: “Using up what little affordable oil we have left on this planet to improperly manage baby poop is possibly the stupidest use of oil we could think of…”
  • Baby’s sensitive outer skin layer can absorb 50 different chemicals with the use of disposable diapers, wipes, and other baby products
  • Sodium Polyacrylate was banned from tampons because of its link to Toxic Shock Syndrome, but is still allowed in diapers. It causes a LOT of health issues
  • Disposables are bleached with dioxin, which is the most toxic of all carcinogenic chemicals according to the EPA
  • Childhood respiratory illnesses, such as asthma, have been linked to the chemical cocktail in disposable diapers
  • Super absorbent disposable diapers actually encourage diaper rash, because parents feel they can leave a wet diaper on longer

For us, the decision to use cloth was easy (see Why I Love… part 1 for the myriad reasons why). The information here just adds fuel to the fire for why we choose cloth diapers.

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*Disclaimer: This is not a knock to my family and friends who use disposables. I love you all and respect whatever decision you make for your little ones.*

 

Coming up: the 3rd and final installment of my “Why I Love…” series. It might be called Our Favorite Things (working title) and it will focus on the supplies we use (and like) that make cloth diapering so easy!

Why I Love Cloth Diapers (part 1)

I’ve been thinking about writing this post for a while, seeing as how I have a lot of pregnant friends and family who are currently making decisions about these types of things. Some friends of mine told me that they had decided to use cloth diapers and were outright admonished by their family for that decision, as we were by some of our family and friends when we made the decision. However, I say IGNORE the naysayers. In this post I will tell you why I LOVE cloth diapers and I hope I can encourage others who may be considering it!

*Disclaimer: This is not a knock to my family and friends who use disposables. I love you all and respect whatever decision you make for your little ones.*

I love the long-term cost
Cloth diapers are an investment up front, but you buy them once and then you’re done. Even for multiple children. We spent less than $200 total on our cloth diapers AND accessories, and then that was the end. We didn’t have to buy any more, and we won’t have to buy more for any future children, either. Imagine not having to buy $25 boxes of disposable diapers for 18+ months, multiplied by how many kids you will have. Think about what else you could do with that cash, and – bonus! – no more emergency, late-night trips to the store for diapers!

I love that they’re better for the environment
Disposable diapers make up 30% of non-biodegradable landfill content and are the third largest consumer item in landfills. We are supposed to be good stewards of the only earth we have – reduce, reuse, recycle, etc. – and this counts too. Don’t fool yourself that the water and energy used to launder cloth diapers is more costly/worse for the environment – the monetary and environmental costs are negligible and are a fraction of those needed for the resources used to make disposables.

I love that cloth diapers are better for everyone’s health
Speaking of landfills, it’s not just the diapers going in there. It’s also the virus-laden baby poop (even though YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO DUMP POOP IN THE TOILET REGARDLESS OF WHAT TYPE OF DIAPER YOU USE – read it on the back of your disposable diaper box!) and the chemicals used to make disposables so absorbent and soft. Here’s the readers digest condensed version virus part: infected baby poop goes in landfill, landfill effects groundwater sources, viruses get in water supply and make people sick. Here’s the chemical part: the chemicals and dyes in disposable diapers irritate baby’s skin and have been linked to asthma, cancer, and sterility, among other things. (See forthcoming Why I Love Cloth Diapers part 2 for details.)

…But you have to rinse them?
Yes, but you’re supposed to do that anyway! And we have a handy little diaper sprayer next to the toilet to help with the job. I think a lot of people are turned off from cloth diapers by the fact that you have to dump the poop in the toilet, but you were supposed to have been doing that all along!

(Edit: I have now had the opportunity to change a poopy diaper, courtesy of a tremendously cute girl in Missouri. I can now say, from personal experience, that rinsing a disposable diaper in the toilet is WAY MORE GROSS than rinsing a cloth one!)

I love that it isn’t a lot of laundry
We do a load of diapers about once every three days, and if you had more cloth diapers then you could go even longer between loads. It takes about 30 seconds to throw a load in. It’s easier than our own clothes, and then you don’t have to fold them when they get done! Now, there are certain types of detergent you should use for cloth diapers, but they’re inexpensive, easy to find, better for baby’s skin, and also better for the environment than typical laundry detergents.
We also went a little old school and bought a laundry line for the backyard. (Definitely not required, though!) We save electricity (and therefore money) by drying our diapers outside if we have the time. Why not take advantage of the oppressive heat? Plus, it dries and removes stains at the same time. It does take time to hang them up and take them down, but it’s time that I get to be outside and I love that.

diaper line

(Do you see the top of our neighbor’s playscape? What you don’t see is their pool, and what you don’t hear are their joyous squeals and huge splashes as they play in the water. You don’t see or hear that from our neighbors on the other side, either. No, no, I’m not bitter.)

I love natural bleaching
What about stains, you ask? The answer is – the sun! Bleach (the product) is a harsh chemical and probably not all that great to use on something that will be touching your baby’s tender skin, so instead of that you just leave your poop-stained diaper out in the sun for a few hours and the stain is gone. There are times that I have been downright in awe at what has miraculously disappeared from Andy’s diapers. I present exhibit A:

When I first put these out to dry. Notice the dark stains...

When I first put these out to dry. Notice the dark stains…

Four hours later. Some stains faded, but some completely gone!

Four hours later. Some stains faded, but some completely gone!

I love that cloth diapers don’t smell
We don’t use a diaper genie – just a plastic trash can with a lid and a wet bag – and the only time I smell the contents of the bin is when I open the lid, if it’s  full. Again, you’re using less waste by not having to wrap a disposable diaper in a non-biodegradable plastic bag to contain the stink! In my opinion, most of the “diaper smell” is not from the human waste (and if you’re breastfeeding then it’s especially not) but from the disposable diapers themselves. Have you ever sniffed a clean one? They don’t smell like roses.

I love being able to suit the diaper to the need
Do you need more absorbency? A snugger fit? One that baby can wear for longer occasions, like overnight? An “easy” one for grandmas, grandpas, and babysitters? Ones that don’t leak? How about one that grows with your baby? There are cloth diapers to meet all of these needs and more.

I love how cute cloth diapers and covers are!
Of course this is another of my opinions, but who doesn’t love a fluffy bottomed baby? I don’t have to choose between Winnie the Pooh or Baby Sesame Street, though they are cute – I can have pretty much whatever I want. Einstein scribbles, owls, fish, rock n roll, superheroes, tye dye – if it’s on fabric, it’s out there on some baby’s bottom. (Images below from google, but better yet, click here and see for yourself. You won’t believe the cuteness and the creativity!)

Legend has it…
I’ve heard that two other benefits of using cloth diapers are that they encourage proper hip development and earlier potty training. I can’t say one way or the other on these but you can do your own research if you’re that interested.

I love that we can resell our diapers when we’re done with them
There is a slew of ebay-type sites for selling/reselling cloth diapers. I thought this was weird at first – diapers that someone else had pooped in? But then I thought, well, Andy’s just going to poop in them too, so what difference does it make? And they’re cheaper than new ones so we can save the money and the earth (there’s that reuse thing again!)- why not? And then, when we’re done with them we can sell them and get back a chunk of that original investment. Sounds good to me, like a win-win-win-win!

I love doing something that’s better for my baby, my wallet, and my earth
That’s pretty self explanatory!

What about you? If you’re not a cloth diaper-er, what’s your biggest hurdle? If you do use cloth, what do you love about it?

Next: Why I Love Cloth Diapers part 2

Coming soon: Why I Love… Part 3. Stay tuned!